Pat lives in Tierrasanta with his wife of 30 years, Monica. They have two sons. Max graduated from the University of Arizona in May of 2016 and received his masters from San Diego State in 2017, and is a tennis coach at La Jolla Beach and Tennis Club, Alex graduated from the University of Notre Dame in 2021, and is currently getting his Masters in Education from Notre Dame while teaching at a high school in Oklahoma City. Pat still plays a little golf and enjoys hiking and being outdoors.